Thursday, January 14, 2010

Cause for Celebration?

I never thought I'd have cause to celebrate a miscarriage, but that's exactly how I feel today. Yesterday I saw the doctor and since the baby had died 2 weeks ago and was so early on in the pregnancy there wasn't a possibility to test the genetics of the embryo, hubby and I are having ours done though. However, the doctor told me given the pattern of the HCG levels (the beta as she calls them), the pregnancy was ectopic. This morning I had an ultrasound to see if they could see anything in my uterus or tubes, as it's very rare for a tubal ectopic to clear on it's own.

Thankfully there is no fetal tissue found in my uterus or tubes, and I'm so happy I want to dance. I was so worried I would lose my right tube as I almost always ovulate on the right, so losing the tube would significantly reduce my prospects of becoming pregnant again.

I have one other thing to be thankful for, as often as I've miscarried I truly believe that one day I will have a daughter, and that I couldn't be more proud of the woman she grows up to be. I just don't like the idea of having to wait until my early to mid forties to have her.

6 comments:

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I'm glad you've got something to be happy about, and more importantly, that you're hopeful!

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MissyMoo said...

Hi, I just recently started my own blog and while looking around came across yours. My husband and I recently went through a situation somewhat similar to yours. After years of doctors telling us we would never be able to have a child, we found out I was pregnant, unfortuanately we found out because I had an early miscarriage. To everyone around us we were loosing our minds, because try as we could we could not grieve. We were sad and upset but to us, it was music... a song we had long waited to hear... That I could become pregnant, that there is a chance for us. This has lead me to wanting to change my life, because like you my dream is to have a daughter. I know she will be here one day! Thank you for sharing your story!

Missy

Lisa said...

Don't give up, it will happen. I wish you the best of luck.

Unknown said...

Lorax directed me to your blog. I had no idea you two were having such difficulty conceiving. I read through your older posts to. My heart goes out to you.

I have a couple of suggestions of places you might try, if you are open to suggestions, drop me an email.

Take care,
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